Good morning you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
Men are born to pursue women.
Don’t even try to prove me wrong. Yes, we live in a world where everything is messed up, and it’s no wonder the roles are mixed.
We have effeminate men and women competing and comparing to these men. Men with no guts and women who have to pull the strings. It’s so confusing to many.
There is a reason why man is a man and woman is a woman. The reason why is neither competing nor comparing with one another but complementing each other.
‘A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the woman he loves.’
I would NEVER pursue a man. I never did nor I will.
Dear women, you can try to pursue a man.. but in most cases that’s an obvious sign that he is not into you. It is not natural for a man to expect you to “conquer” him. (But if it works for you.. you do you.)
A man who REALLY wants you.. he will pursue you. This is where the magic lies.
If a REAL man TRULY likes you, but let’s say for some reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that immediately. He won’t play guessing games, nor with your emotions (only cowards do it). AND VICE VERSA.
Some men may say they love you, but if a man don’t prove it with actions.. he’s not interested in you. See them as they are, not how you’d like them to be.
A real man will make you feel safe and protected. And a REAL WOMAN will know how to appreciate it!
With a real man you know where you’re standing at. Remember.. Men are born to pursue women. However.. the relationship will only work where there is MUTUAL love, dedication, commitment..
I don’t mind living in a man’s world as long as I can feel like a woman in it.
What matters the most is how someone treats you. If someone treats you like you’re ordinary.. they are not worthy of your love!
‘Don’t be someone’s sometimes.’
Hey.. we are talking about love here. LOVE! What does love mean to you? Do you live according to that definition? Do you FEEL loved? Does the person you like/love treat you special? Or do they just want you to believe that you are special to them?
We all know those who make you believe that you’re special to them, until you realise they talk to everyone like that? What kind of person would do that? Definitely the kind of person you DON’T want in your life.
Those who play with other people’s emotions, those who send you mixed signals by being off/on with you, those who make you question where you’re standing at, those who look for you only when they need you.. take them as a BIG NO.
Don’t give them the power to decide for something that you have equally right! Love (relationship) goes both ways!
Wait for the one who MAKES time for you.. the one who prioritizes you, treating you right. The one who respects your feelings, love, needs, time.
If person is really interested in you, they will make an effort to put you at ease bringing you peace and harmony. And it will be done EFFORTLESSLY. Simply because they care for you and they want you to feel safe!
If person is really interested in you, they will make an effort to put you at ease bringing you peace and harmony.
If someone treats you like an option leave them by choice. Don’t spend your time and give your heart to those who make you wonder about their feelings for you!
But most importantly, dont treat others the way you wouldn’t like to be treated!
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🏻🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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