Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Never expect from someone to be the one.
Many people desire to be in a real relationship but they cannot even be in a relationship with themselves.
Being in a real relationship requires 2 “real” people who are ready to commit, connect and create a strong bond filled with love, respect, trust and mutual understanding. To build from scratches.
How hard is to find a real person nowadays.
Someone you can have a real conversation with, not some chain messaging! Someone with whom you will exchange feelings by looking into each other’s eyes instead of posting it on social media!
Real is rare.
Relationship is a partnership. You choose a partner, a best friend, a lover.. someone you can build your future with, creating memories worth remembering.
It won’t always be easy, that’s why you must choose the one who share your values, vision, someone who can give you the love you deserve, someone who won’t give up on you and your relationship after the first fight.
Of course there will be disagreements, but not drama.. you need the one with whom you can set rules for your relationship, which you both need to follow. A real relationship has no lies, it has limits.
Don’t settle for halfass loves, immature games or those who are all mouth no trousers. Don’t cross the ocean for someone who only stare at the water.
Love is bold, love is for the brave!
So.. ‘If you’re not going to swim deep with me, then get out of my waters.’ But never ask and never expect from someone to be the one!
If you’re single, or unhappy in a relationship.. establish your values.
Set your values and standards.
Learn to love and respect yourself.
Know what kind of relationship/partner you would like to have.
Know your “needs”. Be specific. Stay open for love and wait for the one who will match you.
But make sure to BE THAT PERSON YOU WISH YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE. Don’t ask for what you dont give.
Never lower your standards for sake of being in a relationship. Never push someone to meet you on the bridge.. Love should flow naturally and it ALWAYS has to go both ways. Never expect from someone to be the one.. never ask them to change to fit your needs.. that’s selfishness, not love.
Accept people as they are. If they don’t match your needs and if they don’t try to, let them go. They’re not yours to keep.
If someone shows their real face and they don’t treat you good, don’t try to paint a new picture. Believe them. Red flags. Don’t live in an illusion thinking: oh they will change. People change only if they want to. You can’t force them to change. Don’t fool yourself. You should change.
I love to say: I’m not looking for a million “things”, just for that one, perfect one for me. Wait for the one who will treat you like you’re the only one they see.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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