Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Never forget to respect yourself – If you feel invisible next to someone you care about, always communicate first. If nothing changes, walk away. If your absence is not noticed, then your presence has no meaning in their life. And no, this should not be a test for them, but clear signals to you.
It is very important that you focus on yourself. Whatever you do in life, your decisions should come from a place of love. Love and respect, towards yourself first. And these things should never be questioned or negotiated.
So love and accept yourself and be you. Know your worth and never forget that you are worthy of love.
All this will help you go through life more easily, accepting reality and people just as they are.
Because.. very often we want things to be the way we want them to be, closing our eyes to the truth and reality. And in this way we cause ourselves not only pain, but we turn that pain into suffering. No one else does it for us, but ourselves.
It also happens that we want someone to love us and want us, just like we want and love them. And then, in the hope that it will happen, we close our eyes to the obvious and accept crumbs of love only out of fear of losing someone we think we love. Maybe we won’t lose them, but we are losing ourselves. And again, not only do we create pain for ourselves, but we also do not experience love.
So tell me, what is there to love about someone who doesn’t love you back? Do you love yourself?
That’s why it’s very important to love yourself. You can lose people and that’s all life.. but don’t lose yourself, especially not at the cost of keeping someone.
Don’t force anything in life. Things should flow naturally, especially love. Love is not love if it is forced, nor is it that you have to fight for your place in someone’s life.
Because.. those who want you in their lives will make room for you. And you will always know where you stand in their lives.
If you feel invisible next to someone, always first communicate how you feel. If nothing changes, it’s time for you to change. Both yourself and your surroundings, because the world is full of people, the point is to be with someone for whom you are visible, understood, appreciated!
If they act like they don’t care, believe them.
If someone acts like they can live without you, help them to continue living that way.
If they act like you are invisible to them, don’t force them to open their eyes, but ‘force’ yourself to move away.
First, you need honesty, second, you need love, not acting and games of manipulation. You are not in primary school.
Respect yourself.
Respect others.
Respect other people’s choices.
Things are really simple, so don’t complicate them. When someone wants you in their life and loves you just the way you are, you will feel it. The same as when someone doesn’t love you and doesn’t want you. Just like you, depending on whether you love someone or not, you make room for that person or not. It’s that simple.
So don’t live ‘what if’ and don’t close your heart and eyes to reality. Because we are only as blind as we want to be.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 💙🙏
Love and namaste,
Irina
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