Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Never imprison the one you love. Never control them.
If you’re in a situation where you want to end the relationship and your partner doesn’t want to.. it can be very tricky to leave. Especially if they say they love you, they can’t live without you etc.
Let me clear some things in order to help.
‘And if I could make you understand one truth, it would be this.
Someone who manipulates your feelings through guilt isn’t loving you.
That’s an attempt to control you. And that has nothing to do with love.’
If your partner is trying to make you stay (using tears, feelings, searching for your weak point), even though you were clear that you don’t love them, know they dont love you. That’s manipulation. Selfishness. They need you. Let that sink in.
If this wasn’t clear enough for you and maybe you feel important because they NEED you so you decide to stay, thinking you are doing a good deed.. maybe you should consider to be a volunteer in red cross too.
Don’t look at your worth based on how much someone needs you.
That’s not the right way to build your self esteem either. And it has nothing to do with loving another.
If you think being committed to a toxic relationship is something that makes you a loyal and good person.. No it doesn’t. It makes you a coward.
You’re mentally and physically exhausted, so you do what is easy. And you should be doing what is right.
You should stay loyal to yourself, not to toxic environment and manipulative person.
Never imprison the one you love. Never control them.
We learn a lot about love from experiencing what love is not.
And.. If you are the one trying to manipulate, the question for you: do you really want to be with someone who feels pity for you instead of love? Do you see yourself as pitiful?
And let me tell you what I learned from experiencing what love is not..
‘Be with someone who feels like freedom and loves you without chains. Because love isn’t about holding someone back or using guilt to make them stay. Love is freedom, and they freely choose you.’
Love is free. Light.
Love is not possessive or obsessive.
Love accepts and understands. It knows no judgments. Love knows no fear.
Your mind does.
When it comes to choosing your partner.. it’s a huge decision.
Decision that will affect you, your present and your future.
Make sure you love the one for the right reasons.. don’t confuse love with temporary pleasures.. don’t let the passion take over thinking that’s what love is all about.
Don’t confuse love with lust. Don’t look for superficiality when your soul is yearning for love.. love so deep, strong and extraordinary that you will feel like you have never loved like that before.
Love is built.
When you meet the one.. you will feel familiarity, immediate connection.. such a strong connection, as if your souls are reunited.
Before choosing your partner, make sure to meet all the conditions you ask of them.
Make sure to know how to love yourself. How to be alone & happy. That’s your responsibility. Live with integrity and set your standards.
And love in such a way that the person you love feels free. Never imprison the one you love. Never control them.
Your love shouldn’t have limits, but your relationship should. Limits that both of you must set, understand and follow.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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