Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Do you feel like people throw their frustrations at you? Are you the one one who use others like an emotional punching bag?
No one has the right to use you as an emotional punching bag! And you have no right to use anyone like your emotional punching bag!
Deal with your issues instead of taking it out on someone.
We can see these type of situations on daily basis. So many frustrated people who have no idea how to deal with their frustrations.. so they find the easiest way to take their sh.t out, by throwing it at others.
They don’t know differently. And that’s okay..
They don’t know differently. And that’s okay.. you learn and change because what is not okay is that they don’t see a problem in their behaviour hence do nothing to change.
It’s a common thing on the internet.. which makes me think of how many seriously ‘damaged’ people are in the world. Those same people you see on the street with smile on their faces can be exactly those who are the biggest bullies on the internet (not just on the internet). People are good at pretending.. and ‘brave’ behind the screens.
Only on the internet they ‘have guts’ to post nasty comments, sending hateful messages. AND THAT’S THEIR REAL FACE!
How wrong is this.. it looks like instead of throwing the garbage into the bin, they open the window and throw it into the street, making everything around them dirty.
People usually pass their frustrations where they feel they can.. those are usually people they love. Partners, kids.. people they feel safe with. Oh how sad this is..
What happens next is that ‘receivers’ accept it, thinking that’s what love is. I get chills as I write this, seeing how people experience love and learn about love.. And after some time it became a normal thing. A pattern of behaviour they also accept and do the same exact thing. To others.
Remember that satisfied people never do that. Only hurt people hurt people.
We all have shit that we accumulate from different situations in life, things we go through.. The ‘only’ huge difference between us is how we deal with all of that.
Find your way to face your issues. But one thing should be the rule for all: No one should be your emotional punching bag. And you must not allow yourself to be an emotional punching bag to anyone!
Never allow others to go through your home with their dirty feet. And never touch others lives with your dirty hands.
Never allow yourself to be anyone’s emotional punching bag.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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