Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Do you focus on people who don’t like/love you?
Not all people (will) love you, neither they should! Don’t focus on the people who don’t love you.
First & foremost if you pay attention to those who don’t like/love you.. you should be asking yourself why that bothers you? Is that your insecurity speaking out from you?
‘So many people love you. Don’t focus on the people who don’t.’
You don’t like all people, do you?
You can’t please everyone, neither you should. So why spending your precious time and energy on watering dead plants?
The same thing goes for relationships. You should be in a relationship with the one who brings out the best in you, not the stress in you.
Your relationship should be full of smiles, good times & happiness. Your relationship should be based on love, commitment and facing obstacles TOGETHER.
A relationship shouldn’t be source of additional stress filled with painful, upsetting moments or crying, hurting situations. You shouldn’t be living with constant thoughts of wanting to leave the relationship.
If you have those thoughts & your heart says that you should leave, then.. follow your heart. Breaking up is a solution. Always!
Because.. Firstly, we all deserve love. Someone who loves you wouldn’t do things to make you wish you wanna walk away.
Then.. you should be asking yourself why do you want to stay with someone who doesn’t love you?
‘Don’t waste your time trying to get people to love you. Spend time with those who already do.’
Why do you focus on things, people who shouldn’t be even part of your thoughts..?
Remember that: Your focus determines your reality!
Not all people (will) love you, neither they should! Don’t focus on the people who don’t love you.
And..
Remember that we accept the love we think we deserve.
You can’t make someone into loving you, just because you wish so. You can’t make someone change.. just because you wish them to be different to start loving and appreciating you.
What you can make happen.. is speaking up about your feelings and eventually walking away from anything or anyone who makes you feel that you are hard to love or someone who is causing you pain in any way.
Because, dear.. there is nothing more painful than staying somewhere where you don’t feel loved. There is nothing more difficult than trying to change yourself so others can love you. Or waiting for them to change.
You can’t change others.. AND you should never change your essence. Be yourself and the right one (right people) for you will love you for who you are! So.. please stop giving your love, energy to those who are not capable of loving you back.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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