Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Now is always the perfect time.
If not now, when?
You don’t know if tomorrow exists. Ok, there is, but not for everyone. Because there are those who made plans yesterday for today, but today they are not with us. And there were those who did not expect that tomorrow would not exist for them. Life surprises us constantly.
And as scary as this may sound to you, it shouldn’t have that effect. It should have the effect of waking you up, shaking you a bit and making you wonder if you are living your life the way you want? Is there something you want to do, but you’re waiting for tomorrow or some perfect moment?
Whatever it is. To finally start exercising, to find time for yourself, to express your feelings to someone, to invite her on a date, to apologize.. name it.
Each of us has something that we want.. and fear is always present! It’s OK! Fear is ok and normal!
However.. those who do not listen to fear but to their heart are rare. Many people listen to fear and then hide behind excuses like: I don’t have time, starting tomorrow, it’s not the perfect time, moment..
And then day after day goes by, and their desire begins to turn into some impossible mission.. because they reach a certain age and the only thing they feel is regret for missed opportunities, for unexpressed emotions..
They regret that they didn’t have more courage to do what they wanted.. but they paid attention to their fears, hiding behind various excuses. The excuses they used to justify themselves, because they didn’t have the courage to look at and accept their fears and do what they wanted in spite of them.
Reason is not the same as excuse.
Mostly the reasons are fears.. and the excuses are various.
So stop for a moment and think about what it is that you want to do that you are not doing because of your fears?
Every time you justify yourself to yourself or others, ask yourself what is the reason behind the excuse? Is there any fear? Face the fear. Let fear serve as your help, a warning to take care of yourself, be more careful, and not something negative or paralyzing.
Disclaimer: these are general recommendations that should encourage you, not personal suggestions, please do not take this superficially, but use common sense for your personal example.
For example.. people often hold back their emotions, they don’t say what they think, want, feel.. they don’t show their love to someone, out of fear of the reaction of others, out of fear of rejection.. and then they mostly find some excuses not to do it, because they listen to their fears.. and often say that they are waiting for the perfect moment, and that moment, it seems, never comes.
Don’t wait for the perfect time or moment, the moment will become perfect by itself when you do something you want. Make the moment perfect!
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏💙
Love and namaste,
Irina
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