Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
People are full of fears.. hence people are in love and not together and together but not in love. ‘The sad truth is so many people are in love and not together, and so many people are together but not in love.’
This is so true.. and it makes me sad(kind of) thinking of how people imprison themselves.. without any valid reason! We are all born free, you know.. but we are taught to think we are not. So, we will continually seek approval or validation from others until we understand that none of these is necessary for our lives. Break that cycle.
Be responsible for your life.
Are you one of those people who use excuses to stay in a relationship/marriage with no love just because you are afraid of..?
What others will say?
What your family will think about that?
Losing respect from your loved ones?
A new start?
To be alone?
Take a risk?
To start all over again?
So on..
and..
Do you use your children like an excuse to stay in relationship/marriage without love? Many will say this is a reason.. but no, it is not. First of all, distinguish between reason and excuse. And then.. be honest with yourself.
Again, why oh why?
What is more important than your own happiness (and your partner’s happiness)? We all deserve love!
If you are not happy, but stay together with someone, what kind of example do you give to your children? Think this: would you like your child to live like you? Your answer will tell you enough.
If you think what other people will say? WHO CARES!!! YOU?
If you’re thinking that you will lose respect from your people, people that matter to you.. So be it! Why? Because if they love you, all they want for you is to be happy! Be always honest and don’t put the key to your happiness in other people’s opinions on your life!
And.. If you’re not with the one you love.. again, because of your thoughts aka fears, please, risk anything for love! Don’t leave anything to chance, and don’t let yourself live in regret for something you didn’t do.
You are thinking that change won’t be easy? IT WON’T!
But it’s worth it! What makes you think that living without love is easier? There’s nothing more difficult than staying somewhere or with someone without loving them. And there is no greater agony than living with unexpressed feelings and not giving your best to be with someone you love.
And most importantly.. Learn to be alone. Spend time alone. Think what kind of love you give and deserve? What kind of relationship you want? Only and when you learn how to be alone and happy, you will be ready to be in a relationship. A relationship that will be filled with love. The same love you give.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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