Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Nowadays people don’t even date anymore. We live in a very fast world.. so it seems like people have time for nothing but superficial relationships. Do you love dating? I do.
‘Nowadays people don’t even date anymore. They just talk, catch feelings and fuck for a while then end up ignoring each other.’
How true this is and it is a consequence of the superficial world in which we live.
It’s actually the other way around. The world is superficial thanks to superficial people with superficial values and superficial standards. Standards and rules that were invented for the profit of ‘some people there’, and accepted by most people who blindly follow them. Hence why so many superficial relationships.
We live in a very fast world.. so it seems like people have time for nothing but superficial relationships. They look for love and happiness in the wrong places and in the wrong people for them.
Omg.. I love dating! It’s the most fun part.. and very important step before you start a relationship.
People seem to have forgotten to have fun. They rather jump straight into bed, thinking it has to be that way. That’s how they know if they are compatible with someone. That’s how they will be accepted.
Oh dear.. no. Although chemistry has a huge role when choosing a partner.. it shouldn’t be a reason why you want to be with someone.
To be even sillier people confuse (superficial)attraction with love. And.. For just one moment they think they have found happiness.. just because they have good f.ck.
We all know that attraction won’t stay forever, speaking about intensity.. So after that attraction fades away.. what remains is reality! Emptiness. They start blaming each other for their unhappiness.. letting their egos get in the way.
They ignore and fight with each other to see who is right. And that is so wrong. You can’t fight AGAINST your partner. Your partner should be YOUR PERSON.
If you fight against your partner, then you have a big problem with yourself. It is never about WHO IS RIGHT. It is always about WHAT IS RIGHT.
Remember: You look in others what you nurture within. Your relationship and your partner are your reflection. Don’t blame others for your unhappiness, it only shows how weak you’re. Your happiness is your responsibility.
Remember this as well: Don’t skip dates! Meet people. Don’t jump into bed right away, if you dont feel like it! Dont let it be a criterion for loving someone. That’s not love! And never lower your standards.. be that person you wish to have in your life!
When choosing a partner, in addition to having good sex, choose the one with whom you have the best connection at all levels, someone you can talk to and have fun with.. because when good sex fades.. at least you will have fun remembering it. 
Date.. so when you find the right one for you.. you won’t be afraid of committing..
Can you be my “Come and stay” in this world of “People come and go”? Can You?
Well.. the truth is.. the one who wants it.. it won’t be necessary to ask them this question.
Love is an action. It needs to be true and respectful. Love is built.
A relationship requires two people who TRULY love each other, with the same vision looking in the same direction.. who refuse to give up on each other after the first obstacle. Love is commitment.
It feels like when you can’t imagine spending your life with someone else. Love is when you love your partner even more after an argument. The relationship has arguments, different opinions, but love mustn’t be forgotten.
We live in an instant world full of superficial things, values, people.. they can’t even commit to themselves to do simple tasks.. so how can they commit to someone else and their relationship? It takes maturity, consistency and responsibility.. so rare to see nowadays.
As a consequence we have many instant, superficial relationships.. where everything seems promising at beginning but relationships last till dawn. Or they last till first “distraction” on social media.
But remember: It’s not about social media, but you. It’s not about distraction, but you. You’re responsible for your actions.
When you truly love someone, there is no distraction in this world that can change that.
Give the love you wish to receive.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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