Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Playing is great, it encourages imagination, thinking.. you keep the child in you BUT don’t play with my feelings!
So.. the only ‘playing’ that is far from great is when you play with other people’s emotions, heart, feelings, life. There are many ways you can play, let it not be human lives.
People, conditionally speaking, are unconscious when they play with other people’s feelings, emotions. They are actually ‘conscious’ but not awake and aware. Their playing with the emotions of others comes from a place of satisfying their own needs, it comes from their egoic self.
And their ‘conscious’ is as deep as the ego reaches, see. Or does not see.
Because the ego only sees what it wants to see and what it needs to feel good. Thus awareness does not come from the place of the ego, but from connecting with oneself, when a spiritual awakening occurs.
That’s why telling someone ‘Don’t play with my feelings’ won’t be effective.. because few people will stop to ask themselves and analyze if they’re really doing that, but the first thing they’ll say will be: I’m not playing, what’s wrong with you?! The same as telling a narcissist that they are a narcissist. They don’t see themselves that way! They refuse to analyze themselves.
Therefore, focus on yourself.. always.
Because, first, of course you will come across those who don’t love you, but need you. It’s up to you to recognize that and to move away as soon as possible, earlier than the relationship starts to develop.
Then, I want to bring the focus back to you again. Connect with yourself and be honest with yourself. Live in harmony and peace with yourself.
When you are honest with yourself, you will be honest with others. When you are at peace with yourself, you will not steal others’ peace.
When you’re not sure how you feel about someone, say so. People often keep silent about this part, because they are afraid of how others will react, that they will change their opinion about them.. and that is not a life in harmony with oneself.
It is a sign that you live in fear(ego) and that you are not responsible for your life. A sign of immaturity.
Because just think, would you like someone to play with your emotions? If you’ve experienced it.. then you know how desperately hard it is. Why would you bring such misery into someone’s life? You won’t heal that way.
We share with others what we carry inside us. So it’s time to analyze yourself and what you carry inside.
Because such decisions come from a place of ego and satisfying needs, enjoying the attention and love someone gives them and giving them false hope with sweet words. Different people do it in different ways, and they all have in common that they don’t love that person, but they love all the sweet things, love, attention, they receive. Such relationships are one-sided.
To make matters worse, some relationships go far and turn into marriages, where one side absolutely does not want to commit, but is there because of their own needs.
Always ask yourself how you feel in a relationship. And are you honest?
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina
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