Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Let’s talk communication.
Poor communication can ruin an amazing connection!
Communication is key. For any kind of relationship.
If you want things to work out.. if you want to build a relationship, if you want to move forward, if you want to solve any issue.. you should be able to communicate. Openly and honestly.
So yes.. Poor communication can ruin an amazing connection!
Let’s not forget that communication is not just saying things out loud but telling the truth (your truth) with respect and dignity.
Communication is also listening.
Not listening to reply but to understand what another person is thinking and feeling!
If you want to move forward on a deeper level in a relationship.. It will be impossible without mutual understanding. without communication, understanding cannot be created! On the contrary. You can only create nothing but the distance. The biggest distance between two is not measured in kilometres but in the absence of communication.
I can’t emphasize enough the importance of expressing yourself. You must communicate. You must be vocal about your needs or desires. You must speak up when something bothers you. You must say if someone or something hurts you.
We are not mind readers. Hence ask others for clarification. Don’t assume! Assumptions are usually harmful.
Don’t over think, as overthinking can lead you to some really bad decisions. Overthinking makes the problem bigger than it is.
And I’m sure you know all of these.. yet many refuse to communicate honestly.
Look.. others don’t matter. You can’t make someone understand you if they are not open for that! BUT you should always give your best to express your thoughts, feelings to be understood. You should focus on your expression, that’s your responsibility, not how others will understand it.
People who communicate poorly will always think that you’re trying to argue every time you try to express yourself. Don’t try to convince them they were wrong.
Remember people can only reach you as deeply as they reach themselves.
I know, it can be very painful when someone you care about simply don’t even try to understand you. But you can’t force them to understand you!
Don’t let them stop you from communicating! they are there for a reason.. and the reason why is not to force them to understand you.. but to understand that not all speak your soul language. so you just need to find the one who speaks your language.. so you don’t have to spend your time and energy translating your existence.
I know that, no matter the potential you see in someone or your relationship.. creating a relationship won’t be possible without them seeing that too!
And yes, I know how painful it can’t be, but remember: it takes two to tango! Love is built!
So.. in order NOT to ruin an amazing connection.. communicate! Don’t EVER be afraid of expressing how you feel. Connect with the one who has the same will and whose effort matches your effort in giving energy, dedication to create something amazing.
Don’t play immature games and definitely avoid those who play any kind of mental games with you.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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