Good morning you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
Relationship is like a plant that both of you have to water and feed.
To love is to give.. 100%.
Love should go both ways. A relationship should never be one sided.
Of course some days your partner will struggle and they won’t be able to give maximum and that’s where you, your love will help them to go through rough time.. because the day will come when you will need the same.
What I’m saying here is that foundation of the relationship must be a mutual desire to create your small universe. You two acting like a team. Wanting to be there, to love each other, sharing everything with one another.
Effort, respect, trust, consistency, loyalty, LOVE must be mutual! Always!
Are you giving too much and receiving to little? If this works for you, and you feel loved, appreciated, fulfilled.. congratulations, you do you.
If not.. you should be asking yourself why is this happening? Do you feel tired, drained.. these are the signs that something is wrong.
As always everything starts with ourselves & self love.
If you don’t know how to love yourself, or what you need, your partner most probably won’t know that, either. Firstly, you have to figure it out on your own. Then, talk to them and see where that will take you.
To love is to give.. but do not forget that you deserve love. You also “need” love, the love you give.
‘She was a giver. Always poured, too much of love. Never realized watering a rock doesn’t make it soft.’
People who have givers by their side should take after them. Givers are like a gem that should be treasured.
As a giver myself I had to learn many lessons.
People will take you for granted. They will take everything from you and will ask for more. BUT only if you allow it.
You have to know your limits, as others don’t know them. Speaking about any relationship.
Especially in love relationship. Choosing your partner is one of the biggest and most important decisions you can make. You’re going to spend your time, energy.. EVERYTHING.. with your partner.. so choose them wisely.
Don’t water dead plants.. don’t try to soften the stone.. do not try to turn the rock into gold.
Relationship is like a plant that both of you have to water and feed.
Everything MUST be mutual. Nurturing each other and bringing out the best in each other. There is no point if one side gives and the other takes. Giving without receiving equals self-destruction.
Dear, you need love too in order to grow. That’s why, if you’re a giver.. give yourself love first.. love yourself unconditionally so you could know your limits and when to stop giving yourself to others. Give where you’re appreciated and respected.
Stay where you feel safe, protected and treasured.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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