Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
Let’s talk about self-acceptance. You should be your true self. And that’s the only way to be.
‘I am who I am. Not who you think I am. Not who you want me to be. I am me.’
That’s the only way it should be. Although many people do not properly understand ‘be who you are’.. so they are often rude and say, well, that’s me. Ookaaay.. if you really think so.
If ‘be who you are’ consists in accepting yourself.. does that mean that you accept your rudeness and hurting other people as a part of you and who you are? Think again.
You should accept yourself. You should become you. To be in harmony with yourself.
You’re unique. Different. That’s your power, your beauty.
However.. reality is quite different. Too many people live by expecting to be accepted by others. Too many people imitate others. And those others imitate others. A vicious circle where all that uniqueness is lost.
Then, people follow trends. No matter how ridiculous these trends are. It is important to blindly follow everything that is imposed on them.
They spend their lives pleasing others, forgetting to listen to themselves. They live according to the expectations of others.. a usually they create a false image of themselves, to impress others.
And all this with the wish to be accepted, loved.
That’s how we were all taught. To depend on others. To be accepted by others.
Question your teachings and everything you have learned! Question your beliefs!
It’s up to you to see if you want to change it. Awareness is required.
I’ll remind you of what you may have forgotten.. there is an option: think for yourself, think with your head. Listen to your heart and that voice within. What is good for YOU? What does your soul say?
It is not important to be accepted by others. What matters is that you accept yourself. Look inside yourself and feel your soul. Connect with your core self.
Just because they don’t even think that exist an option named “think for yourself”. They forget that the only and the most important acceptance is acceptance by themselves. They don’t even think about it!
Be real. Connect with yourself and listen to that voice that comes from within.
Listen to that voice that comes from within (not your thoughts).
By being yourself (accept, love & embrace yourself!), you will be loved for who you are. You won’t feel exhausted trying to maintain some fake image you’ve created in order to be accepted from others.
Happiness can only exist in acceptance.
Joy, peace can only exist in acceptance.
And how others see you.. remember: we don’t see others as they are but who we are. So.. try not to see yourself through the eyes of others. Again.. focus on yourself. Discover yourself. Take off all the layers you’ve been putting on yourself for a long time. What is underneath all that? Those layers don’t belong to you.
Dig deep.
And.. Read this again.
Don’t look at yourself through the eyes of others! Self-acceptance is key.
Focus on yourself, connect with yourself, work on yourself.. and others, who cares what others think? You do you, as long as you do good to yourself and to others.
If you decide to live one UNhappy life then think what others think of You, how they see you and put the key of your happiness in their pocket.
You decide. 🙏🏼
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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