Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Some people constantly keep changing partners to avoid changing themselves. Why is this happening?
This is such a common thing, that I wouldn’t know where to start.. There are so many things to unpack.. so many issues.. but the most important one is lack of self-love.
You’re responsible for your life and your happiness, and some simple seem not understand it. Also, this part: changing yourself instead of changing partners. You should always be real and true to yourself.
Changing yourself is required when you give responsibility of your life to others. When you tie your needs to them by expecting them to meet them. This is not fair to the other person and the only thing you will achieve is leaving them exhausted. You’re creating toxic attachment and environment.
We all want to be loved. Who doesn’t? But.. changing partners to avoid changing yourself isn’t love, darling. You’re running away from yourself.
Your partner shouldn’t complete you. You’re already complete. You should learn how to make yourself complete.
Many people believe that others are responsible for their happiness. So, they jump from relationship to relationship looking for that feeling. That is so wrong.
Giving someone responsibility to make you happy when you can’t do it on your own is selfishness. It has nothing to do with love.
It is necessary to spend time alone.
Change starts with yourself. Only and only when you learn how to be happy alone, you will be able to be happy with someone. Learn to love yourself. Set standards. Know your values.
You can escape from one relationship to another, but you will never be able to escape from yourself. Don’t get addicted to escaping. Face your sh.t. Face what you’re running away from and what you’re looking for. Find your peace.
Your happiness is your responsibility. You and your partner should be happy individually. Only then you will realise that there’s no attachment, but willing to commit and share your happiness together. To love is to give. Share. To love is to build.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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