Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Sometimes you need to let go of the image of how you would like it to be or how you thought it should be, and concentrate on the now. Learn to accept the life you are living and find joy in the story that you are actually and truly living now.
And this applies to any sphere of life.. accept the life as it is, people as they are. It doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t dream about a better life or a better relationship or marriage.. it means that you dream but that you don’t get attached to the outcome or that you have expectations that it will actually happen.
Don’t live in the future, make plans but don’t miss your life now.
People get so attached to the future, that they live there creating nothing but anxiety. Or they expect to be happy when something they want so much finally happens. And there are those who always wait for something to finally be happy.. or they look for happiness in something or someone.
And what if that doesn’t happen?
Then instead of accepting the reality they feel disappointed.. and it was not your unfulfilled wishes that disappointed you, but your expectations that they would come true the way you wanted them to.
No, it was not your friend or partner that disappointed you, but your expectations that you had from them. OF COURSE, I’m not talking about situations when they did something harmful to you! What I’m saying is that you don’t expect yourself in others, don’t expect something that they don’t give you, don’t expect them to behave according to your expectations.
As long as you wait for something or someone to be happy, as long as you live a false image and not reality, you will never be at peace or happy.
This is very important for you to understand, because as always the point is to live in peace, a life filled with joy and NOW. And you will only achieve that if you ACCEPT THINGS, LIFE AND PEOPLE AS THEY ARE.
Life is happening now.
Dream about the things you want, but also work to achieve them. If it doesn’t happen, accept it! Maybe something even better is waiting for you! It’s not the end of the world. It will only be if you think it is.
Are you not in a happy marriage or relationship? Communicate and look for a solution. Don’t expect others to change, change yourself, accept the real picture, don’t live in the illusions of your desires.
Do you desperately want someone by your side because you think you love them and that you’ll never find anything better, despite the fact that you don’t feel loved?
Why don’t you love yourself?
And what if someone who will love you like never before is waiting for you? Why are you limiting yourself? And even if that doesn’t happen, why do you want to live next to someone who really doesn’t love you and from whom you get crumbs of love? Isn’t it better to be alone and find joy in that instead of expecting someone to change?
Why limit yourself when the possibilities are as big as the universe.. accept everything as it comes, without expectations, BUT choose what you keep. Live love, choose your decisions and how you look at life.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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