Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
‘Strong women STILL need their hands held’. Why is this being questioned at all? Terrible. Just because I’m strong it doesn’t exclude the REAL man holding my hand. On the contrary, I love it. Though he must be on my level (that’s up to me to feel)..
So.. it made me think about all that jazz, misunderstanding about equal rights between men-women. Just bits of my thoughts to clear up women things..
As a consequence, we have the world full of effeminate men and women comparing and competing to those men.
And there are many things to unpack here, but I will try to explain as simple as possible, straight to the point, as always.
I think many people did not properly understand what “equal rights” meant.. and why women wanted it so badly. And no, it’s not because we don’t want the right man in our life. We want a man who will treat us the right way.
Let’s talk about ECONOMICAL independence.. because that’s the point here.
That independence did not even have to come to the question if men did not use it like an advantage, treating women inferiorly and poorly.
Just because a woman wants her independence, which is very important.. it doesn’t exclude her “need” of a real man in her life. Don’t confuse these two.
That’s all about that (economical) independence.. a woman wants to work so as not to be mistreated by a man. If a woman was respected for what she is, what she gives, what she can and for being a pillar of the family, these things would not even be demanded.
HEY.. look, read and understand: It’s not about money, it’s about how you treat the one you love! Money comes and goes but how you treat the one you love speaks about you.. if you throw them in the face things you do for them, because they depend on you economically, what kind of person are you?
And.. we don’t want to be objectified. I see that many women still struggle with this, measuring their worth through looks and how much men like them. Dear girl, this is so wrong. We are capable of doing many things; thus, we want to be respected for who we are, not for how we look.
However, feeling protected and safe.. yes, it’s in our DNA. We can’t neglect it. Every woman needs to feel safe with her man. Woman wants commitment and to depend on her man in the right way. We are there to complement each other not to compete with one another. But she needs a REAL man.
And to all women.. before you demand a REAL man make sure that you’re a REAL woman who respects her man for who he is and what he gives. You know everything goes both ways.
And no less important.. We don’t want to be emotionally abused, or to have roles of mothers, therapists, we want to be treated equally, to feel like a woman protected by her man. Promise.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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