Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻

Let’s talk about how to take responsibility for your actions and your life. And about changing yourself, instead of waiting for others to change.

“It’s always the ones with dirty hands pointing the fingers.”

Isn’t it just curious.. that attack is the best form of defence for people who never take responsibility for their actions?

It’s always much easier to blame others.. thinking that if they say a lie twice, it will become the truth. And it becomes the truth, in their heads.

That way they “protect” themselves, convincing themselves (and others) that it is always someone else’s mistake.. always complaining and saying that others and things should change and not they. Hence why they stay the same, repeating the same cycle over and over again. Lying themselves and others. Having a role of victims.

And they stay the same because they don’t want to change. So.. logically blaming others is much easier. Don’t even try to tell them they are wrong. Because in their realities they are not. Remember that we live what we believe in. So, let them sleep.

Keep in mind that..

“Those who don’t want to change, let them sleep.”

We can’t force others to receive the message they are not ready to receive, understand.. we can’t change others.. However I always believe in the power of planting a seed.

You “teach” others by being an example of your teaching. That’s how you can plant a seed. Walk the talk.

And.. about others and how to protect yourself..

Don’t trust words.. we can tell the most beautiful fairy tales when we want to..

Pay attention to people’s actions. People’s actions show you what their words won’t.

People may not always tell you how they feel about you.. but their actions speak for themselves. They will show you. Believe them.

Pay attention to energy too. Tune in. Be aware. Be present and take responsibility for your actions.

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🙏💙
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.