The biggest mistake you can make is not doing something you want or need you live in fear (of change, uncertainty and) that you will make a mistake.

Fear blocks. Don’t believe fear. Fear is there for a reason, don’t ignore it. But don’t believe your every thought. Because that’s what fear is, a thought! Fear will prevent you from doing the things you always wanted, or from deciding on a better life.

Are you going to make a mistake? Let’s get that straight first.

If you need a change and want to move from where you are.. for example, because you don’t have peace, you don’t feel loved.. then how can that be a mistake? While making changes, will you make mistakes along the way? Very possible, but that does not mean that your primary decision to make changes is a mistake!

This is not a reason not to make changes! Because, firstly, you don’t know how things will unfold, and secondly.. you need change because otherwise it wouldn’t appear as a desire or a need!

Then, even if the path of change is paved with some mistakes.. keep going, just keep going, don’t stop and it will get you somewhere! Learn lessons along the way, just don’t let the fear of making a change stop you from making changes! Because that would be a mistake.. or better say your decision.

The biggest mistake you can make is not doing something you want or need you live in fear (of change, uncertainty and) that you will make a mistake.

Talking about wishes, dreams, changes, in any sphere of life.. the biggest risk is not to take risks.

Either you will win or fail. But you learn a lot from failure.

You’re either going to win someone’s love or you’re going to be rejected. Acceptance is the key and you will know where you stand!

The point is to dare to be brave and to follow your feelings of what you want to do!

What the result will be, you can’t know it, what maters is to do what you need to live in peace. Of course, you want things to turn out the way you want, but you’ll be ok even if they don’t, because you know you did your best and allow yourself to grow and become a better version of you.

Listen to your heart, because if you let your ego guide you, then every failure will be tragic and seen in a negative context.

Then there will be fear of judgment, too much thinking, fears..

Focus on yourself, and what you want to do, not on your fears! Not on others and their opinions or reactions. Others are not important, but you, your peace.

If you don’t feel loved, get out of the relationship, if you want to start your business and your passion, dare to take the first step. If you want to declare your love for someone or invite them on a date, do it without expecting a positive answer. If you want to apologize, do so without fear of how they will react.

Many want things to happen the way they want without putting an effort or without feeling pain, discomfort, rejection.. but that’s impossible! Because it’s all part of life.

None of this will be a mistake unless you don’t allow yourself to do what you want!

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.