Good morning you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
The difference between falling in love and loving someone. I guess you know which one it is?
Is there anything greater than love? Being in love is not the same as loving someone. Love can start with falling in love, but falling in love does not always end with loving someone. On the contrary, it can grow into a very toxic relationship.
Falling in love is very often connected with egoic needing or wanting.. You become “intoxicated” with someone, feeling an intense urge to spend time and the constant yearning for more and more.. You want to be with them all the time, and you miss them the second they leave. Usually, you crave their touch, their presence, their kiss.
That’s what makes falling in love so exciting, and people tend to confuse it with love.
This is a really beautiful part of dating someone you’re in love with.. but to love them.. requires much more.
Falling in love feels like infatuation whereas love is accepting. Infatuation makes you see an image of someone, rather than the whole picture. Simply put.. you ignore red flags. You see only what you want to see, the things you need in that moment that make you happy.
Loving someone is accepting them for who they are. Commiting to them. Let them be. Let them feel free. To love is to embrace each other, building your kingdom together. Love is built.
Hence why your partner is one of the biggest decisions you will make in your life.
There is a difference between someone who wants you and someone who deserves you, between someone who wants you and someone who would do anything to keep you.
Choose your partner wisely. Go where the love is. Be with the one who:
– brings you peace, joy
– believes in you
– motivates you to learn, grow
– is responsible, truthful, faithful.
Stay away from anything that isn’t love. Stay away from drama, jealousy, stay away from those who pull you down, limit you, blame you. That’s not love but lacking of their self love.
Learn what love is and only respond to love. Stay true to yourself, and watch who reach you. You will be surprised how many can’t reach you.
Learn to respond to respect, not to attention.
Love is the universal language, that we all should understand. The truth is that not all know what love is, hence why not all communicate love and not all know your love language. Some may use the same words as you, but they don’t have the same values as you.
Observe, pay attention to how someone treats you..
Speak love LOUDLY, speak your feelings, speak love fluently. Show your love.. and choose the one who speaks the same love language as you do.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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