Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
The right person for you is..?
Generally speaking there is no wrong or right person.. there are those who are right or wrong FOR YOU. If someone is wrong for you, it doesn’t mean that he/she is wrong for someone else.
‘At your absolute best, you still won’t be good enough for the wrong person. At your worst, you’ll still be worth it to the right person.’
But.. you have to figure out who is wrong for you. If you didn’t have couple of them who were wrong, how would you know who is the right one for you? Maybe they weren’t wrong, maybe they were right ones at some point, something we needed? Some lesson we had to learn.
And we learn so much about love by experiencing what love is not.
Or maybe you were lucky enough to find the perfect one without having to learn some lesson.
Who knows. You know it better.
If you weren’t lucky enough.. the thing is to define what perfect means for you and to “find” the perfect one. Weirdo who is compatible with your weirdness. Someone who understands your words.
I wish you to have someone who speaks the same heart language as you do, so you don’t have to waste your time on translating your soul. It’s like you have to explain your existence. Be with someone you can connect with on all levels. Profound as you are.
Keep in mind that the one who can’t stay by your side at your worst.. they don’t deserve you at your best. But.. don’t forget that you deserve the love you give.
So.. The right person for you is..? Be yourself, be that person you wish to have in your life and wait for the one who offers the same.
‘The right person will come along and you won’t need to do anything to keep them interested for the simple fact that you’ll be enough.’
You’re enough, because you’re complete.
In order to be with the right person(for you), you must be yourself. You must not create a false image of yourself. Unfortunately most people live like this, predominantly not being conscious about it.
We’ve been taught to live up to other people’s expectations, hence why most people have lost connection with themselves.. living to please others, and feeling unhappy within.
You’re in charge. It’s in your power to change those beliefs.
The only expectations you should live up to, are yours. Connect with yourself. Explore what you like, what you don’t like.. and BE the person you wish to have in your life.
Be unapologetically you, honest, good human. And wait. Wait for the right person for you.. The one who will match your standards. Your vision. The one who is faithful to you, being your biggest fan. The one who is consistent. Wait for the one who will value you so much, that they wouldn’t EVER put themselves in a position to lose you.
Never stay somewhere where you feel like you’re not good enough or with someone who struggles with being consistent, putting halfway effort. Of course you will meet these kind of people. And they are exactly the kind of people you should stay away from.
Because.. Love flows effortlessly.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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