There's no greater agony than keeping within unsaid feelings

Hello you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻

There’s no greater agony than keeping within unsaid feelings.

People do stupid things, running away from facing their problems, looking for distractions in alcohol, cheating, drugs.. using shabby excuses to justify their behaviour.

It’s easier to escape.. many will say.. They will say it, just because they can relate to this. But is it right?

And, dear.. is it really easier? I don’t think so. I know that you know it too.
It’s easier for those who are not brave enough to follow their hearts, for those who don’t live according to how they feel.

But.. there’s nothing more difficult than spending your life escaping from how you feel, running away from something you have to deal with and pretending that you are ok when you’re falling apart within.

So is it really easier?

Because..

There’s no greater agony than keeping within unsaid feelings..

It is a recipe for self-destruction. As a result people look for quick “remedies” in drinking, cheating, fooling themselves they’re ok. These are just escapes that very often lead to unhappiness.

That’s why many people spend their precious time in relationships/marriages without love, avoiding uncomfortable conversations and cheating on each other.

Find the way to Always say how you feel, without expectations, to avoid spending the rest of your life in regret. Whatever their answer is.. it doesn’t matter!

Face any situation at your own pace and time. Be brave, do it for yourself! The point is to know where you’re standing at so you can move forward.

Life is very simple.
People complicate too much.

I notice very often that people find easier to insult each other, to escape from how they feel.. instead of connecting to each other speaking about feelings. How wrong is this.

They aren’t afraid of hurting each other, yet they fear opening their hearts and minds. When you let your ego to get in the way this is the result.

The guiding force through the life should be your heart. When you do things from your heart.. you learn how to give with little(respect) to no expectations. Because you learn what acceptance means. Of course, if someone rejects you.. it will hurt.. we are humans. But you will get over it because you understand that we are all free to choose and that the only thing that matters is to give 100% (no regrets).

Be vocal.

Say how you feel. Speak the (your)truth. Communicate clearly. I really wish that people understand and apply this, saving themselves and others trouble. Because.. There’s no greater agony than keeping within unsaid feelings.

Be honest no matter what.. if someone hurts you, tell them and explain why: “Hey.. you hurt my feelings when you do this to me..” or if you love/miss someone, tell them! Wanna ask her out: come on.. use you imagination, please.. and just do it.

Remember.. You’re not desperate if you speak about feelings, but brave and beautiful.