Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
‘Learn to differentiate between the sound of your INTUITION guiding you and your TRAUMAS misleading you.’
We all go through life experiencing different things. Beautiful and often, not so beautiful ones.
And.. There’s no person in the world who has no past ‘traumas’. There’s no person in the world who has no suffered.
We have been lied to, we lied. Someone hurt us, we hurt someone. Some painful experiences have left a deeper mark, some not.. we all have past traumas and as you can see, the world doesn’t revolve around you = you’re not the only one going through difficulties.
You are who you’re today thanks to all decisions you made going through those situations you had to face. Your traumas didn’t shape you to who you’re today, but you and your way of dealing with them. Your resilience made you stronger or your weakness made you a victim.
The good thing is that you’re in charge and you always have a possibility to change for the better.
That’s why you should understand why you felt (feel) what you did, and why you no longer need to feel it.
In order to move on without a burden on your back and without letting your past to define your present, the crucial thing is to understand your feelings, reactions, emotions, what triggers you.. and never to forget to follow your heart.
Never close your heart, don’t let your past traumas define who you’re let your resilience do that.
That’s why you must be very careful who you let in into your world.
‘Be mindful, extremely selective, and very intentional about the people you allow in your life. Not enough people are talking about how life-altering this is.’
Be very picky. Focus on quality, on people and things that bring you joy and peace.
I dont have to tell you, but.. maybe to remind you, that you are allowed to end friendships, relationships, to close chapters, without feeling guilty.. in other words: to walk away from anything or anyone who steals your joy. It’s your right.
Never prioritize someone who treats you as an option!
Stay away from those who are on/off with you, or only when is convenient for them.
Never be with someone who treats you like you’re ordinary, or who reach for you only when they have time or when they need you.
Choose those who MAKE time for you, but don’t forget that if you don’t give reciprocal, they shouldn’t prioritize you either!
You deserve everything you give.
Hence why you deserve the love you give.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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