Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
‘Think about it like this. He didn’t text/call you back because you just aren’t that important to him. A man who sees a woman as a priority is consistent prompt, and wants to proactively stay in touch with her.’ (vice versa)
Or maybe he just fainted. Did you really believe what I just said? Please..
And..
This goes to both men and women: when someone shows their true colours, please stop painting a different picture! We are only as blind as we want to be!
Life is very simple. Don’t ignore the signs.
To women: Even if he says that he likes you but do nothing to be with you.. don’t push him. Don’t chase him. Man is born to ‘conquer’ a woman. You can try to pursue a man but that’s just an obvious sign that he is not into you. And it is not natural.
To all: Relationship works when men are being men and women are being women. We are different so we can complement each other, we shouldn’t compete or compare one to another!
When roles have been replaced, and it happens very often nowadays, it’s like a recipe for a disaster.
You need someone who is ready.. ready to commit, ready to build with you.
If you were/are important to them, you will be their priority. And vice versa.
Thus: They didn’t text/call you back because you just aren’t that important to them.
You don’t want someone who is ready to play, because that’s something immature, insecure people do. You want someone who is ready to ‘work’, to build your life together.
Immaturity, irresponsibility look for playmate, whereas responsibility, maturity look for a partner.
Lies, excuses, not willing to commit, disrespect, are signs of a person who is not serious about you. Let them go, don’t convince someone to stay or to love you, to see your value.. the one who is right for you will not need any convincing. They will see your worth.
You don’t want someone who:
- is on/off with you
- gives you mixed signals
- you need to remind or teach the importance of connection and commitment
- isn’t sure about you
- question/calculate are you worthy of love
When a man really wants you, the right man for you won’t make you chase him. You will be his priority. This also goes for men.
The right one for you will never make question where you’re standing in his/her life.
And dear, to help you even more, if you have a question mark above your head, ask for clarification, don’t assume. If you don’t feel safe and at peace next to someone, it means THAT’S NOT IT. If you don’t know what to do and you live in expectations or in constant uncertainty.. then.. if you can’t untangle something, you cut it!
Always ask yourself: do you feel loved?
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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