Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
To be vulnerable is to be authentic. To show vulnerability does not mean to be weak, but quite the opposite.. from that vulnerability comes strength.
It is equated with weakness, because you are in a position to be hurt.
Therefore, showing vulnerability is equated by many with weakness, either because of beliefs they have or because of previous bad experiences where many abused or did not know how to respond to that very honesty, openness, vulnerability and fragility and instead of support they hurt them emotionally.
So don’t let previous bad experiences stop you from expressing your feelings. Don’t build walls thinking that you are protecting yourself that way.. No, you are not protecting yourself, but you are closing the flow of energy and the heart.
When your heart is open, it is NORMAL that you will be vulnerable. And that’s not a bad thing. The bad thing is when someone uses and abuses it because they see their own advantage in it.
Distinguish these things.
Being vulnerable means feeling your emotions, feelings and not running away from them.
Many think that they will protect themselves from being hurt by others by closing their hearts, turning into stone-cold people without emotions.. but they don’t actually realize that they are doing the exact opposite and hurting themselves. Because they don’t become emotionless, but suppress them. By doing this, you are harming yourself and your health.
So please, first of all, be aware of this, and then learn to love yourself. Know your limits. Don’t let yourself go through life with a closed heart, but learn to listen to it and let love guide you.
Because if you close your heart, you close the flow of healthy energy. You allow yourself to listen and be guided by fear, making decisions from a place of fear. And in this way you will not protect yourself, but only when you learn to love yourself and to set boundaries.
That’s why choosing a partner is very important.. because vulnerability connects two people and deepens their relationship.
The one who sees your naked soul and your vulnerability and still sees you as beautiful and strong even when you are fragile, and is there to understand, support you, show love is the one who deserves to be by your side.
And it will inevitably happen that not everyone will understand or love and accept your naked soul just as it is.. there are those who will run away, and the opposite of what you want will happen.. BUT that should not be a reason to close your heart. These are just signs that you should follow and understand WHO IS NOT FOR YOU.
Everything is fine with you.. don’t think that the fact that someone can’t and doesn’t show the desire to understand you makes you unworthy of love.
Let yourself be vulnerable.. Your vulnerability makes you beautiful.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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