Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
We all change after being hurt. How we will change depends on each of us individually. I would like it if everyone would become stronger and better, but that’s not the case.
We all had painful experiences that changed the course of our lives. We have all experienced situations after which we knew that nothing will be the same again.
And in fact we are the ones who will never be the same again.
Because painful situations will continue to appear. Pain is part of life. Pain allows you to grow and progress or stops you and turns into suffering. You are the one who decides what will happen.
And I wish I could tell you that life will only give you beautiful things, but it’s not like that. I wish I could tell you that time will heal the wounds, but it’s not like that.
What I can say is that life happens and gives both beautiful things and challenges and time flows independently of your wishes. And you are the one who needs to change your outlook on life to make it easier for yourself and to use the time you need to heal your wounds.
No, difficult situations do not make you stronger, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO BECOMES STRONGER THROUGH YOUR DECISIONS AND ACTIONS. OR WEAKER.
You and your resilience.
People change after being hurt. We all change after being hurt.
For better or for worse. They become stronger or weaker. They take responsibility for their life or curse and blame it.
People suffer and from that suffering they either become aware or take the role of a victim, feeling sorry for themselves and turning life into misery.
People either learn things from pain, becoming more vigilant, or become the ones who cause pain to others.
Pain will arise as life or people treat you, and you will shape yourself based on your decisions and (re)actions. And that will be different for everyone. The only thing that will be the same for everyone: nothing will be the same anymore.
What comes next depends on you.
Because you will come across people who will not know how to love you, you will experience breakups, or the loss of dear people.. something will always happen. So don’t forget to love yourself and be responsible for your life and peace.
Everything you feel is valid, don’t compare yourself to others, because we don’t all have the same resistance to pain or how we experience it. Don’t let anyone tell you how long it takes for you to heal. These are your wounds and your pain. Cry, scream, throw out everything that hurts you.
And remember to be responsible to yourself and to help yourself by making decisions that give you peace. Because you are the one who lives this life in your body, fill it with love, understanding and kindness.
Embrace all the emotions you feel, go through them, understand them, heal the wounds.. and turn them into a better you, not a bitter you.
We all change after being hurt. How we will change depends on each of us individually.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏💙
Love and namaste,
Irina
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