Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
..And.. so tell me, please, what happens inside you, when you give your love to someone who doesn’t love you.. Or when you stay with someone you love, and for whom you are invisible.. Don’t you think you deserve love and to be loved? So.. love yourself first.
Tell me again why? Why choose someone who doesn’t choose you?
Why?
Nothing in life is guaranteed. And not even tomorrow. No one knows how life will turn out, let alone relationships.
No one knows if you will grow in the same direction. Nobody knows if you will love each other forever.
But what you need to know, is to know and feel that you are loved and wanted NOW, just like you love them. And then every next day, as long as the love between you exists. To give love and to receive love.
To choose the one who chooses you and your relationship. Because the relationship is built, as well as love deepens. And in which direction it will be built and deepened depends only on the two of you. That’s why it’s important to have someone next to you who will be there, just like you are for them.
You also must know that communication, respect, honesty and trust should exist between you, if you want to build a healthy relationship on a strong foundation.
If the relationship only goes in one direction.. or if the mentioned things don’t exist.. you are building a relationship that is like a house of cards. A relationship that will become exhausting.
Because life can be very difficult, and a relationship should not be difficult, nor should love. Do not confuse love with life.
Yes, of course, there will be misunderstandings, arguments, but that doesn’t make love difficult.
Because the love between the two of you should ease those situations. In this case, another name for love is understanding.
And how will you be able to achieve that, if you choose someone for whom you are invisible? If you choose someone who doesn’t choose you? Someone who doesn’t understand you?
It will be painful. And no, again, do not confuse love with pain. Because love doesn’t hurt, it heals. A person who doesn’t know how to love you can hurt you. In this case, you are the one who, by making a decision and choosing a partner, did it. And it will continue to hurt, as long as you allow it.
So love yourself first.
When you love yourself, among many other things, you will learn to know what love is not.
Because all these feelings like ‘pain’, exhaustion, the feeling that you don’t belong there, that you are not seen, understood, loved, prioritized.. in a relationship, you should look at them as signals and ask yourself if this is the love you deserve? The love you give, you deserve.
Communicate how you feel, always. And then.. choose love.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏💙
Love and namaste,
Irina
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