Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
When people are rude to you, don’t take it personally, because their rudeness reveals who they are, not who you are. How you react and respond to it, speaks about you. How you treat others speaks about you.
There is a way to say everything, even the painful truth, but being rude is not one of them.
If someone treats you badly..
You have to understand that people who hurt within hurt others.
We share with others what we nurture within!
So.. treat others as good as you are not as bad as they are. If you treat them the same way as they treat you.. well, you equate yourself with them.
And no, I’m not saying that you should allow rudeness and disrespectful behaviour.. what I’m saying here is that there are many ways to handle the situation instead of treating them the same way.
People can be unkind to you but you should never forget to be kind to yourself. That’s the moment when your self respect comes into play.
That’s the moment when you choose what will bring you peace. If being rude will bring you peace.. then be it. But I can assure you that you can’t heal, help yourself by breaking and hurting someone else.
If being rude is someone’s way of being and they use it as a weapon to hurt people, so they can feel better about themselves, to feel powerful.. they’re nothing but a weak individual.. who is full of pain within.
So please.. when people hurt you.. be very mindful about how you will take it.. and how you will react.
Not everything requires a reaction. Sometimes it only requires action.. and that is to get out of the negative atmosphere. Neither to explain yourself, nor to convince others not to be rude.. sometimes no reaction is necessary. It’s up to you to feel what you should do at that moment. Don’t let the ego decide.
Sometimes you will tell people to heck off, because communication is impossible, and you don’t allow behavior or rudeness, and thus put an end to it. And that’s ok. just don’t continue the chain reaction of hurting others.
You should choose your battles wisely.
Be kind but take no sh.t from others.
And most importantly.. how YOU treat others it speaks about you.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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