Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏

Maybe the journey is to discover yourself, who you were before the society told you who you should be.

‘Maybe the journey isn’t so much about becoming anything. And maybe it’s about unbecoming everything that isn’t really you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.’

So.. Who you were before the society told you who you should be?

Before you accepted all beliefs that you parents passed on you.. before all the things you learned in schools.

Before all the things you watched on tv and accepted that’s how you should live.

So in order to grow, in order to reconnect with yourself, in order to find who you truly are.. you must unlearn what you have been learning since day one.

Since day one, since your birth, you have been programmed to serve.

To please. To depend on things. Needing things or people to be happy. To live up to other people’s expectations. To need approval from others. And so many other things that have distanced you from your essence.

Change is possible. It depends on you.

Let go of anything that doesn’t resonate with you! Use your head to think and yes.. common sense, use your common sense, please.

Take your time to take off all the layers you put on yourself, willingly or unwillingly. Take time to discover yourself. Question your beliefs, your values.. YOUR INTENTIONS.

Follow your heart.. instead of following masses, trends, others. Influencers with no values.

Set your standards. Nurture true values. Set yourself free. Be in tune with yourself.

‘It’s not who you are that holds you back, it’s who you think you’re not.’

So.. Who you were before the society told you who you should be?

Who are you after taking off from yourself all the layers of other people’s beliefs, expectations, teachings?

YOU CREATE YOU. You mold yourself. Be a careful sculptor. Question everything.

Hence why you should ‘connect’ with yourself. Replace all beliefs that do not serve you, for new ones that resonate with you.

Believe in yourself and true values. Stand up for yourself. Protect yourself from anything or anyone who try to change or who wants you to adapt to everything that doesn’t resonate with you.

And.. recognize and realise that only YOU are stopping yourself from being YOU. Again connect with yourself, live in alignment with yourself.

It’s always up to you who you want to become.

It’s up to you to make a choice. You have options. You choose what to follow, adapt. Set yourself free by getting rid of all the chains that imprison you.

Be brave.. don’t let anyone to hold you back from believing in yourself.

Be yourself. Bold, brave human. Be you, good human.

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄🙏
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.