Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
If someone says that you are intimidating.. mmm no.. You are not intimidating. They are intimidated. There’s a difference.
Again.. Dear strong women and men, you are not intimidating. They are intimidated.
When I hear that I’m intimidating and God knows how many time I’ve heard this.. I was always like.. why, oh why? I’m not. I’m just being me.
I understand that this is just a perception of other people.
I’m not intimidating. They are intimidated. There’s a huge difference.
How you see me, it’s not my responsibility. It won’t define me, either!
So.. if someone is intimidated by you.. and they run away.. they’re not running away from you, but from themselves and parts of them they refuse to heal, fix, grow.
And, darling, they don’t deserve you.
I love to say, exactly those are kind of men I don’t want in my life.
If my presence intimidates you and you feel uncomfortable trying to drag me down, to change me, so you could feel comfortable.. then you’re just a kid who refuse to grow up. Don’t take it on me for choosing to stay small.
If someone intimidates me, that’s soo attractive to me. It tells me a lot about that person & myself.
We’re like mirrors to each other.
I’m not intimidating, how about to swap perspectives?
Then.. you’re just one weak individual, who is afraid to face your own shit. How this sounds to you? But it’s always easier to run away, blaming others and justifying yourself with excuses: oh she/he’s intimidating.
Remember, you can’t escape from yourself.
Hence why you should focus on yourself and if you haven’t’ already.. to choose your partner very carefully. You want to be accepted just as you are without feeling someone’s fear of you.
Well.. we teach others how to treat us by what we allow and what we stop. We teach others how to love us.. which requires knowing how to love yourself in the first place.
What you like and what you don’t like.. Your needs, what you want. What love means to you. And to be vocal about it. All of these is mutual and it requires communication.
But.. you should never, I repeat, you should never teach others basics. Things like respect, manners, trust, honesty, what is right or wrong.. you should never teach others basic education. It’s a matter of common sense, too.
Your partner must treat you right. And.. as usual.. Vice versa.
A relationship is a partnership. You are not there to be a parent, but a partner! And God forbid, you are not there to intimidate or to be intimidating! You must choose your equal, the one with the similar vision, values as you! The one who wants to raise the kingdom together with you.. not the one you need to raise.
Note the difference!
Do you feel exhausted, drained, tired or empowered, fulfilled?
If someone is in a relationship with you just because they need you for their selfish reasons, if they leave you nothing but drained.. don’t forget the decision is yours what to do. Someone may disrespect you, but you should never forget to respect yourself.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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