Hello you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
You know that song by Rihanna and Eminem: I love the way you lie.. well, I’m not Rihanna, nor do I love the way you lie, nor do I love lies.
Come on, who likes lies? Who is lying today? Does anyone believe lies? Who lives a lie? I hope you recognize the irony in these questions..
Because.. I dare to say and answer the questions: many do!
And it all starts when people don’t love themselves and when they don’t live in harmony with themselves, therefore they are not honest with themselves.. how will they be with others?
And if you’re wondering, how can someone believe lies? Well, they can, because they want to, for their own interests. Although it often happens that they know something is not true, they decide to accept a lie as the truth. For their reasons.
One of the examples are all relationships and marriages, where people stay together and don’t love each other. They lie to each other, live a lie, deceive and cheat on each other, and yet they stay together. For their reasons, for their fears. And all this indicates that they do not live in harmony with themselves, nor do they live love, but fear.
And there are as many examples as there are lies, which people use to manipulate, control, use others, etc.. the reasons are various and they are all connected by a lie. Fear.
That’s why, as always, I will make you focus on yourself, not on others, and see how honest you are to yourself first of all.
Do you believe lies or something just because someone says it’s true? Do you believe everything you hear? Or only in what confirms your beliefs and current state and mood? Does that necessarily mean it’s true or do you just want it to be true?
Are you lying?
Do you use lies to achieve something? Do you use lies just because they sound nicer so you automatically look nicer in the eyes of others, even though you are not honest? A typical example is fake politeness, and the answer ‘I’m fine’. Or maybe because you want to make an impression on others, (not) realizing that you are creating a false image of yourself, all for the reason that you would be accepted, loved?
Are you insincere when it comes to emotions?
Maybe you play with other people’s emotions, tell them the things they want to hear, not what you feel? Maybe you even tell them that you love them and that you care about them, but actually the only one you care about is you, your ego and the satisfaction of your needs? Classic behavior of manipulators and narcissists.
Or do you believe someone when they say they love you even though deep down you know they don’t? Your gut and energy never lie and their actions don’t follow their words.. yet you close your eyes to the truth? Why?
And so on.. the point is to be honest with yourself first, and then vocalize it with others! Discover what your fears are, face them, that’s the way to honesty. Because a lie is fear.
What’s the point of lying? Nor do they make you a ‘good’ person, nor do you do good to yourself, and then neither to others!
You neither have peace nor a peaceful life, you neither live love but fear. So what’s the point of lying?
What is there to love about someone who doesn’t love you?
I wish people could be brutally honest and say always what they think and how they feel!
Like, hey I like you.. hey, you’re hurting me.. hey, I miss you.. you wanna go out? I think about you all day. Everyday.
You don’t sound desperate, you are sincere.
Please.. Be honest! And Rihanna we love you.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏💙
Love and namaste,
Irina
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