Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
Someone may disrespect you, but you should never forget to respect yourself.
‘I don’t ever want to go through another stage in my life again where I am telling a man/woman how he/she should treat me.’
Love shouldn’t be exhausting. Love shouldn’t make you feel like you’re asking for too much, as long as you give the same.
Do not equate love with suffering. Or with forcing. Love is simple, free, natural and it has a healing effect on you.
Yet loving sometimes doesn’t seem easy. It should be, but it is not.
And that’s ok. Because we are all different and life happens so as challenging situations. That’s why you must be sure that you are with the one who will accept you and love you for who you are.. someone who will hold your hand facing obstacles together.
If you choose to love someone who seems difficult to love.. or you stay somewhere where you feel like you have to force love.. then remember what I said above. You can’t force love. That’s not love but selfishness. You look for love in the wrong places, in the wrong people for you.
Find someone who has a heart only for you, someone whose love feels easy.. and communicate. Communicate with your soul, teach each other your love language.
‘Finally I realized I was never asking for too much, I was just asking the wrong person.’
Choose the one who won’t give up on you when life gets rough.. when your relationship is challenging.. because life isn’t easy, but your relationship should feel easy. Remember when love feels easy then the relationship is good, and it’s like a treasure.
Remember this: we teach others how to treat us by what we allow and what we stop.
We teach others how to love us.. which requires knowing how to love yourself in the first place. Someone may disrespect you, but you must never forget to respect yourself.
When you start living yourself, you will learn what you like and what you don’t like.. Your needs, what you want. What love means to you. And to be vocal about it. All of these is mutual and it requires communication.
But.. you should never, I repeat, you should never teach others basics. Things like respect, manners, trust, honesty, what is right or wrong.. you should never teach others basic education. It’s a matter of common sense, too.
Your partner must treat you right. And of course, vice versa.
A relationship is a partnership. You are not there to be their parent, but a partner! You should choose your equal, the one who has the same vision, who has similar values as you!
Remember you want the one who wants to raise the kingdom together with you.. not the one you need to raise.
Note the difference! And let this sink in.
Do you feel exhausted, drained, tired or empowered, fulfilled?
The answer you give to yourself must tell you what to do.
If someone shows disrespect towards you.. if someone is in a relationship with you just because they need you for their selfish reasons, if they leave you nothing but drained.. don’t forget the decision is yours.. you choose what to do.
Because.. Someone may disrespect you, but you should never forget to respect yourself.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 💙🦄
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