Good morning you beautiful soul! 💙🙏🏻
You want your partner to be honest with you, but are you honest with them?
In order to make a relationship last one of essential things is communication. You have to talk about everything, especially when uncomfortable situations knock on the door.
´Lack of communication ruins everything because instead of knowing how the other person is feeling, we just assume.’
Words don’t come easy to you? You struggle to say how you feel? Maybe you get scared of unpleasant situations, uncomfortable conversations? You know what? We all do.
You shouldn’t use any of these as an excuse not to communicate. People shouldn’t be your mind readers. Be mature, honest, responsible and practice communication.
And.. date a person who is willing to say, ok, let’s sit down and talk, let’s find a solution. Someone who looks at a problem: you & them vs. problem rather that you vs. them.
Someone who cares, who takes out time for you, your relationship, who communicates well, who doesn’t escape from problems, but rather face them! Then..
You want your partner to be honest with you.. but you struggle to be honest with them?
You want your partner to say how they feel, yet you don’t express your feelings?
Start from yourself and act how you would like your partner to act in a relationship.
It is not the distance in kilometers that separates two souls, but rather the lack of communication and LIES! The worst distance between partners is misunderstanding!
Again, please, never underestimate the power of communication and connection.
‘A person in 2 months can make you feel what a person in 2 years couldn’t. Time means nothing,character does.’
It’s not about quantity, it has never been.. nor will be, it’s always about quality.
It’s not about distance in km.. it’s about closeness you feel with someone even if you’re thousands of miles apart.
Some people who are far away from you can make you feel much better than those around you. You can live with somebody under the same roof but feeling miles apart.
You can be with someone in a relationship for ten years feeling miserable for trying to teach them your love language, wanting to be understood.. and then you can click with someone in just one second, day, month.
It’s always, always about being with the one who speaks the same soul language as you! It’s about being accepted for who you are! Think about communication, connection and positive interaction.. that will bring out the best in you. It’s about building your relationship – based on quality!
Pay attention to how someone treats you! Measure your relationships based on quality. It’s not about having million people around you.. it’s about one worth a million.
Remember: It’s not about having a partner, and 10 options on the side. It’s about having one who will make you feel like you’re the most beautiful in the whole world.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul!
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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