Your focus is very important.. because your energy goes where your focus is. Will it exhaust you or will it serve you? It depends on your focus.

You get what you focus on, so be careful what you focus on. And don’t take this lightly, try it and see for yourself. It is simply about energy, because we are all energy and everything around us is energy.

Then you have to learn to observe your thoughts so that you can see what your focus is on. Follow how you feel. Because feeling is a manifestation of thought. And you radiate that way.

Your energy flows where your attention is.

And you can choose where you want the energy to go, simply by choosing what you will focus on.

Be careful what you pay attention to and what you spend energy on..

Because..

Everything you spend your energy on is what you get and it grows. Whether it is negative or positive. Will it exhaust you or will it serve you?

And no, I’m not talking here about the attraction of material wealth.. but about energy in general, which is therefore related to the law of attraction.. and money is also an energy.

Then it is very important that you feel what you say.. because again.. we are all energy and your energy and what you pay attention to reveals your focus, not your words.

Will you spend your energy on worrying or on something that will bring you peace and be much more productive.

Your focus is very important.. because your energy goes where your focus is. Will it exhaust you or will it serve you? It depends on your focus.

And as for people, the same. What kind of energy you radiate and what you focus on is what you will get. Energy vampires. No, no, no, not necessarily means that you have toxic energy. But.. they like clean energy. And, yes, of course they exist.

This is just one of the personal lessons that I had to learn and recognize and, among other things, set boundaries. Earlier I would have said, oh my unicorn, energy vampires seem to like me a lot because I just attract them.

That’s how it was until I realized.. that it wasn’t them but me. They are a creature with a low vibration and go EVERYWHERE.. BUT they stay where they are allowed. And, the way I am, I approach people with empathy, I always thought I could help them.. focusing on them and not on how I feel and what they actually want. Many of them do not want help, but are only looking for someone who will listen to their whining, having a toxic effect on those who listen to them, etc. Hence why I always felt drained, giving them all my energy.

So first, I understand their level of consciousness. Then my focus changed. And therefore my energy. Also the importance of self-love, where boundaries are created.

Even today I will come across such people.. but my energy will not go to them.

So pay attention to what your focus is on in any sphere of life.

I hope this was helpful.

Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏💙
Love and namaste,
Irina 
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Irina

So, let me introduce myself. My name is Irina Vujaklija and I was born in Belgrade on 31 January 1979. Who am I? Love. I know, you will roll your eyes.. But that is how it is. Discovering my true self wasn’t an easy process. Constantly working on myself, learning by seeking answers to many questions, I have managed to overcome very complicated life situations. Among other things, my severe motorcycle accident in 2004. A life altering moment in just one second.