Hello you beautiful soul! 🌏🙏
You. 💙
“And I’d choose you; in a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds, in any version of reality, I’d find you, and I’d choose you.”
Your relationship should be your safe place.
‘I wasn’t looking for anything at all when I met you. Actually, I wasn’t thinking of falling in love with someone so soon. But then I met you. And that was it I guess things just happened. I found you, and I found myself wanting to spend more time with you.
It was simple. It was so easy.
And I think that’s how the best relationships start. You’re not looking for anything and all of a sudden you’ve got everything.’
I met you, I let you in my world, then you became it.. suddenly you were my everything!
And.. I wasn’t looking for you.. I never look for love, love just happens. Love finds you when you least expect it. If you keep your heart open. Love finds you always, even if you’re a mess.. even if you don’t feel so lovable.. love will find you.
And.. Just like that.. completely unexpectedly I met you.
I felt completely naked and vulnerable and at the same time. Safe and protected. I knew I could trust you right away so I surrendered my all to you. I was myself. Everything was so natural and nothing was forced.
My soul felt she knew you from before. I felt peace.
When you meet your person.. you just know it. Your entire soul is drawn to their soul. You feel like you know this person for years or another lifetime. You feel reunited.
And maybe you are reunited. Maybe like many myths say.. maybe that love is immortal. Maybe you fall in love with the same soul over and over again in different lifetimes. That’s why everything about them feel so familiar. This I believe with all my heart.
And I’d choose you.
Why you? Because.. Our relationship is my safe place.
A great relationship is built on true love, not on lies.
‘Behind every great relationship are difficult and uncomfortable conversation we rarely get to see. Great relationship don’t just fall into our laps. They require people to move through their fears and insecurities and do the hard work to move wounds into healing.’
A great relationship requires mutual love, respect, honesty, responsibility.
Two mature people who want to be there. ALL OF YOU.
Your relationship should be your safe place.
When in a relationship you’re not only responsible for yourself, but also for the person next to you, as well as for the relationship you two are building.
This is why many relationships fail.. people halfass love and they give up on each other after the first fight.
You want someone you can sit down and talk about everything. Especially when it gets uncomfortable, when itches all over.
Disagreements are part of that journey. We are all different so as our opinions over the same thing. But you mustn’t forget love. You mustn’t forget to respect your partner.. and to communicate trying to understand each other.
Remember: Whenever it gets hard.. it’s about you two vs problem. It should never be you vs your partner and who is right.. if you see your relationship like that.. darling no one will be ever right, but you both will lose.
And yes, your relationship can still be a fairy tale even tho there are disagreements.. so choose your partner wisely and please dont let it be someone who thinks you’re arguing every time you try to express yourself.
Never forget this: Your relationship should be your safe place.
Depending on when you’re reading this, I wish you either a beautiful day or a good night, you beautiful soul! 🙏🌏
Love and namaste,
Irina 🦄💙
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