‘And you, you scare people because you are whole all by yourself.’ If I had a coin for every time someone told me I was intimidating.. I would own a palace by now. It never made sense to me. Me?…
‘Anything you lose by being honest, you never really had to begin with.’ Anything you lose by being honest was never built on truth to begin with. Honesty never destroys what is real. It only reveals what never truly was.…
‘Did that person lie to you about who they were? Or did you lie to yourself about who they were?’ We do not see people as they are. We see them through the lens of who we are. It is…
‘Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all…
‘People need to understand that their actions affect other people’s lives. So be careful what you say and do. It is not always just about you.’ Or do you behave as if everything were always about you? I wish more…
‘They never want to discuss what triggered you, only how you reacted.’ This happens far more often than it should. This applies to every type of relationship, but it becomes especially visible in romantic relationships, where these situations often end…
‘‘You don’t tell people you’re not okay,’ she said, ‘because it’s hard watching them not know what to do. Then you end up comforting them, even though the one who needed comforting was you.’’ Ah.. this is what usually happens.…
‘Do I blame my zodiac sign, my childhood traumas, or both for the person I am today?’ Oh my unicorn, when I hear someone blame their astrological sign or traumatic childhood for their bad behavior towards others or for anything…
‘Women, you are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is NOT your job to fix him, change him, parent him or raise him. You want a partner, not a project.’ And before you say otherwise.. this applies equally…
‘Love is not Valentine’s Day.. love is always kissing good night.’ Because love is often found in the simplest things.. like kissing good night. It’s not about grand gestures.. it’s about making sure the one you love feels loved. And…